Holiday in Singapore and Malaysia with D

I hadn’t told you this but I’m off to Asia again!

I had planned to go again towards the end of the year and had a possible route in mind. But I find winters in England terribly long and they make me moody, so by February I’m ready to give up a limp in exchange for some sun!

So when D told me to go with me to Malaysia I was tempted. Initially I thought it was crazy to fly all the way there to go on holiday with someone I had never physically met. But later on, as we chatted more and more I started to warm up to the idea. At some point I was comfortable enough and now I’ll be leaving in a couple of days. After all D is one of the three people who actually know my identity on this blog and I really look forward to meeting him finally.

The route is going to start in Singapore, then Tioman in Malaysia, Kuala Lumpur and finally Singapore again before flying back to London.

It’s a short trip, just a week and a half, that will let me have another holiday in Asia later in the year, and I’m already trying to plan what route. My original option was BKK, Chiang Mai, Vietnam and Cambodia but lately I’ve been thinking on a route that would include Hong Kong, Taiwan and something else, not sure, maybe I can combine the two trips in some way.

I can’t wait.

They keep coming but they’re all taken

I’m back posting. There hasn’t been too much going on and I’ve been a bit busy so didn’t get to write any updates.

I was feeling a bit frustrated with my usual friends lately. They’ve all got a boyfriend now and it’s a lot harder to see them, as a result so many times I was ending up on a date just to do something.

So I did a bit of hunting for friends instead of dates, including contacting again some people I had chatted with before but never got to met.

One of them was TL, a Thai guy I had exchanged messages with. We agreed to meet at Kudos/Heaven very much last minute. At the same time M texted me wondering what I was doing, he said he would come with his friend for a drink too. It would be the first time since the last occasion we met and I had to repeatedly decline having sex with him.

I met TL and after a few minutes I got a text message from LO asking me if I was going to Heaven later. My surprise came when he’d actually been sitting about 2 metres away from me all the time!

We chatted for a while, LO openly flirting with me when M turned up. I’m guilty of pretty much ignoring him but I was onto something more important. Apparently M’s friend had cried off last minute so he was going to be stuck with me that night, while my time was split between flirting with LO and chatting with TL.

A bit later we went to Heaven and as we were going in LO mentioned a friend that was arriving. It was a guy much older than me, he’d said hi to quite a few similar people last time we met, no surprise given he likes over 35.

TL went off with his friends so it was LO, his friend, M and me dancing. All the time LO kept flirting with lots of close dancing, touching and flirty looks. Until at some point his friend started to do the same… not a good sign. Finally he stepped up and they kissed a couple of times although very briefly.

OK, at that point I really was feeling like a fool! What on earth was going on? We soon sat down and the friend started chatting. He asked me how long I’d been with M and I told him he wasn’t my boyfriend. I asked him how long he’d known LO and told me they’d been going out for 5-6 weeks! Now that would have been even before the time I met him!

When we were back on the dance floor I asked LO if the friend was actually his boyfriend and he admitted it. When I asked him if they had been together before we met he said no, they had only been for a couple of weeks. Well, someone got the weeks wrong…

From that point I stopped all flirting with LO and focused on having fun with TL who had reappeared. All the way pretty much ignoring a sad-looking M. At some point he even tried to kiss me but I said no to him. I think by now he must be getting the point!

Next day I texted LO. I still fancy him, his body is way too good to miss but that’s the only thing I’m looking for now. He told me he still wants to meet me and we have chatted on Messenger a couple of times since. He even asked me if he had a chance to be my boyfriend! I obviously replied he already had one… but then he asked what if he didn’t and I had to say we’d have to see, that I did fancy him but for the rest we would need to see how it goes.

Not that I would even consider to be his boyfriend now. I mean, how could I ever trust him after his behaviour? For me he’ll be just a fling, this box is one I must tick…

Not sure what’s with me and guys who already have a boyfriend. A couple of weeks ago I got a phone number from someone else, as it happens TL knew him “intimately” and told me he has a boyfriend. His profile says he’s in an open relationship.

Do I have a sign of my forefront saying “relationship escape route”? One day someone’s going to turn on my doorstep and I’m not going to like it.

In the meantime I’ve met TL again for dinner. He invited me to a gay badminton club that meets every Sunday. I took up the offer although I have never played before, but I’m more than willing to give it a try, especially since it’s mostly gay Asians who go there. Besides it’s better than being lazy at home. Although nobody seems to believe the last part.

We went last Sunday and I had a great time, I even got a heart from one of the players who found me on Fridae, of course his dating status is “dating someone”.

Oh, TL told me there’s a room that can be locked and it would be possible to have sex in! Oh, did I tell you LO also goes sometimes?