Weekend wrap up

The weekend had started great on Friday meeting AY. The rest of the weekend was quite busy.

On Saturday J invited me to his new place where he recently moved with his boyfriend. Since I rarely get to see him these days I agreed to go even though I was also supposed to meet L for dinner. So I met J and company for copious amounts of wine and some pizza. After which I rushed into Soho to meet L at a Korean restaurant for a second dinner.

We had a nice chat over dinner as usual, which included some sort of Korean liquor I felt compelled to keep drinking. He told me about a date he was going to have the next day and even showed me his gaydar pictures. You’ll see why this is relevant later…

After dinner L was unsure whether he wanted to go out or not when me met LO walking down the street with two white guys. The two were a couple on holiday for the weekend, didn’t bother to ask any more questions. We all decided to have a drink at Village.

As it seems to be the norm, LO was flirting with the two guys who were obviously planning more than just drinks. L and I watched how he sit between the two, one hand on each guy’s leg and at some point his foot on mine… He even kissed one of them briefly.

When Village closed L went home while the two guys were going back to their hotel hoping to take LO along, who unsurprisingly chickened out and said goodbye to both. As usual. We then headed for Heaven to spend the rest of the night.

In Heaven I saw a guy I’d been exchanging messages on Fridae, we had recognised each other before but never said hi until I decided to send him a message. We had a brief hello and he moved on, probably thinking I was with LO, which would be easy to believe.

Funny when I go out with LO and he is in the mood to be all over me – as opposed to anyone else – I get more attention and looks from people but then, of course, they all think we’re together so nothing happens… Anyway, I was quite tipsy and just wanted to dance and enjoy the night and not pull somebody.

Funnily enough when we got into Heaven I found a guy from badminton I was planning to date the following day! He’s a really hot police officer I had met on gaydar before he turned up to badminton one day…

Now, here is the twist. If you remember last time I was out with LO he brought along another guy. Now that guy is the ex of the policeman I was dating the following day! To top it up I recognised among his friend L’s Sunday date while I would be out with his friend! To complicate it even more think I was with LO who is the ex of the guy that was dating EH at the same time as me… OK, stop, this is depressing.

It really shows how small the world is, at least the gay world, which then gets limited to the subgroup of Asians and western guys who date each other. I decided to start drawing a diagram with all the links. My god, that was more complicated than a spider web, scary when you think you have sex with one and you have had sex with everyone else “by proxy”…

And this is in a city which including surroundings has a population of 12 million! What would happen back in Barcelona with just 3 and much less floating population?

OK, back to the story. The officer left early and his Spanish friend disappeared with the rest so I spent the rest of the night having a great time dancing. Good, because I didn’t want him seeing LO and us dancing closely together.

Next day after badminton, I finally met the police officer. Unfortunately the dinner had to be converted into coffee as he was quite tired. Nice guy, we had a nice chat for a while and it’s always refreshing when your date tells you he actually reads books rather than “I only read magazines”. He now has an uninterrupted shift of days, often in the evenings, which isn’t exactly convenient. I’ll have to wait

Once he left I texted the guy I had briefly said hi the night before as I knew he was around. We met for (my second) coffee and then walked around. Quite nice guy, hope I’ll see him more often. I’m thinking he could make a nice friend.