Sometimes Bank Holidays are very exciting and sometimes, when all your friends go somewhere and there’s nobody’s left, they can be very boring. I can’t complain of mine.
On Friday I met R for one of our regular sessions. I was very keen since we hadn’t met for a couple of weeks between holidays and sickness. He has a very interesting demeanor, he’s very curious about everything and willing to learn. He reminds me of A in some ways, they have a similar peculiar way of reasoning. I’m now contemplating meeting him for non-sexual purposes, we’ve talked about having dinner some time. Things are beautifully uncomplicated with R, we are very complementary in bed and share the same fetish interest, and we can chat for a couple of hours without getting boring. But it all stops there, I worry that if we start going for dinners we may ruin that. Just the opposite of ruining a friendship by sleeping with a friend…
Saturday was, of course, a night for Eurovision. We went to a gay pub in Hampstead. The Spanish song was terrible, I had of course seen it before in youtube but watching it in the pub was a bit embarrassing. This was the first year the Spanish audience chose their representative, and they decided to make fun of it. Fine by me, it’s all it’s left of the whole thing, and it just makes it funnier.
On Sunday I was meeting J (Malaysian), we were meeting at Vauxhall to see what the I Love Vauxhall festival was all about – it didn’t amount to much really. The only excitement was when I was at the tube waiting for J and P (Thai) came up with a friend. We just said hi and usual niceties and off they went. 5 minutes later J called to say he was outside on the other side of the bridge so I went over just to cross P yet again! This time they were just 30 metres from each other and must have crossed. I was glad none noticed the other…
I recognised P’s friend from some of his pics on Facebook, some in the country and some abroad. I must find out who the mystery man is.
After the festival came a lovely dinner in Soho and then we went to a couple of bars before ending up at G-A-Y Late. The whole thing was very cosy, for long periods we were sitting on a sofa touching each other (not fondling!), and our faces were about 3 inches away a few times so I’m wondering whether he is more interested than he wanted to admit the first time we met.
He even got a bit jealous when returning from getting some drinks I stopped to chat to this guy I had exchanged smiles with earlier. I think this one’s Japanese and I’ll call him M. I had to excuse myself and told him I couldn’t do anything that night so we exchanged numbers. I’m looking forward to see him some other day when there’s no date waiting 5 metres away…
On Monday I almost met P when he texted me in the morning, unfortunately we couldn’t quite match our schedules so we had to give up. I had invited him to the theatre for the night but apparently he wasn’t interested, which made me think whether his interest may be fading. So I took J with me.
I still can’t quite read what P wants as he’s always. He can be a bit detached and passive, but then he talks about things we could do in the future. Last week he talked about buying some Thai ingredients to leave at my place so he can cook for me one of the days he’s around, that doesn’t sound short term and yet he’s still puzzling me. I’m starting to feel a bit attached and permanently hoping we’re going to meet soon (as long as I still have time for the others). Not sure that’s a good thing.
Pygmalion at the Old Vic was great, and so was the company. Afterwards we went for dinner and said goodbye. Interesting thing about J; he’s not out to his family or at work (he’s a banker), he even told me how he goes to the strip clubs and puts bank notes on the strippers’ few clothes. He’s a bit worried that someone at work could find out, even any possible gay colleagues! So we couldn’t kiss goodbye just in case some of his colleagues, that happened to live in the area, saw him. And that’s coming from someone who is as sweet as candy and was using make up!
It’s sad that there’s still people who have to hide their sexuality. In many cases it’s probably an unfounded fear, but you never know, so still happens far too often. Makes me think how lucky I’ve been with family and work.
Oh, AR texted again to meet today at a sauna. I do want to meet the guy, but he keeps doing it last minute when I’m not in the mood, so had to say no again… Should pre-empt it next time and plan it for next time.